From Susan Carrier, Past IWOSC President:

Flo Selfman used the words "generosity in spirit," and I can't think of more perfect words to describe Sharon. When I found out she was living in La Jolla a year ago, I called to recruit her for a temporary, non-writing project. At the time, she was working more than full time, but suggested that I call a mutual friend who was having trouble making ends meet. "She'd be great, but she lives on the west side of town. We need someone who lives in the San Diego area," I protested. Sharon countered, "No problem. She can sleep on my couch and eat out of my refrigerator for as long as she wants."

That was pure Sharon - if she couldn't help you, she always found someone who could, even if that meant sacrificing a couch and food. But I guess that's the difference between Sharon and most other people - I would have considered it a "sacrifice" to relinquish my couch for ! the summer, but Sharon found the prospect of helping two friends pure joy.

And it was pure joy to be around Sharon. As many have already pointed out, she was humorous, optimistic, caring and talented. I'll never forget her and will strive to be more like her.

Sharon under IWOSC umbrella at UCLA Extension Writers Fair, 9/05. Photo: Flo Selfman